Ahhhh everyone's always talking about how scared they are their rl friends will find out about fandom AND I DON'T UNDERSTAND because everyone I know knows I am a giant nerd, like I don't know how you hide that? Like the other day dildos and spreader bars and rimming came up in conversation and I was like "I read it in fanfic" and no one gave me the side eye, so that's nice. I guess it's just that you do have so many irl friends that are not only comfortable with fandom, are IN it. I wish I had that, it seems nice. I'm really bad at keeping in touch with people too, I don't think I have any friends left that I've known for more than six or seven years. :/