When I first started watching EMH I found Janet cute and funny but then sometimes she's just really childish. Hank is actually pretty tame in EMH. In the Ultimates movies he's pretty much an egotistical dick, whining about how he's not good enough and then literally risking his life to one-up Iron Man. I know at one point in the books, he abuses Janet (though I think he's under the influence of some drug or something?) and they do eventually get a divorce, but basically he never admits that he did anything wrong. I honestly don't know why he's included in a lot of Avengers things, I've certainly met more people who strongly dislike him than give a shit about him.